Loyalty type（Loyalist）

They have a strong sense of group consciousness and need intimacy, affection, acceptance and security, so their motivation and purpose is that they want the group to be supportive, harmonious and loyal to each other. They want the group to be supportive, harmonious, loyal and law-abiding.

Loyal type of people need to be guided, especially the authority of the guidance, otherwise they will lose their way, once an expert, authority to guide the direction of their life, they had been loyal, full commitment, when their whole body is full of energy, will not be anxious, disturbed to impede the direction of progress, they do their best, can be absolutely assured of entrusted.

They do not believe in themselves, believe in external authority, so once the external authority to reveal the weakness of human nature, do not let them admire, they immediately anti-authority, which makes the loyal type of people live very uncomfortable, if one day they can be sure of themselves, their own inner authority can guide their own correct path, do not have to rely on others, is their ideal goal.

Loyal people want to live a regular life, and they are emotionally stable, not disturbed by any unexpected situations, but the loyal characters rarely comply with their own rules and order, when they can not grasp the situation, the fear of emotions rise, anxiety makes them angry, the order of the brain is in chaos, this time they will be pushed to the emotions of helplessness and fear, in order to avoid these messy emotions, they want to have authority! In order to avoid these chaotic emotions, they want to be guided by an authority who will not be responsible for what happens and who will be in charge of the situation, so they will not have to be afraid because the authority will take the responsibility and will protect them.

A．They are often cute and amusing, but also rude and violent, and are very hard to catch.

B．They are at one time self-appreciative and authoritative, and at another time indecisive and dependent on others.

C．Sometimes very submissive, sometimes openly rebellious, extremely contradictory character.

D．They think too much and can't make up their minds, so they have trouble taking action and are even slower to answer questions.

E．The person is very emotional and is upset because he or she is affected by anxiety and cannot make important decisions on his or her own.

F．If others don't try hard enough, they will scold them while doing it.

G．Traditionally oriented people who are content and emotionally stable only when they follow traditional rules.

H．Hate to be used and belittled.

I．Often don't know how they really feel, so they have to test others to understand how they see themselves.

J．When making decisions, they like to listen to other people's opinions, and when they make mistakes, they immediately blame others.

K. Direct aggressive behavior often occurs due to impulse, and after the occurrence of the self-blame, but dead duck mouth hard, do not apologize, but also others to apologize.

L．Their humor is often sarcastic but not really humorous.

M．When there is no obvious enemy, there is no way to vent their emotions, and if they are uncomfortable, they will look for a scapegoat so that they can vent their aggressiveness.

N．They often overreact to things because they love to be blindly suspicious.

O．They will provoke each other, leading to inexplicable quarrels, in fact, is to test each other love or not love themselves.

Loyalty type of people to have the goal of letting them show their loyalty, they do not like their own weakness, but also hate their own not enough self-reliance, but in fact their turn must be their own ideas, afraid of their own whether they are competent to bring anxiety and insecurity throughout the happy mood flooded them with the results of the really wrong, so in order to avoid anxiety, they are looking for the authority in a hurry.

They know that they are anxious, also know that when they are anxious, all things do not do well, and they also know that someone to guide themselves, the mood will be at ease and smooth, and authority is to help them have a sense of security source, so in order for things to go smoothly, they are obsessed with looking for authority.

They're afraid of making mistakes and being blamed by those in authority So it's easy to project their own bad decisions and behavior onto others so as not to be responsible.

Loyalists are down-to-earth, hard-working people, but because they are always plagued by insecurity and anxiety, they waste their energy on fear of making mistakes, fear of offending others, fear of being chastised and being suspicious of others.

They identify themselves with their father or those who have authority like their father, because they worship authority figures, and it is their greatest desire to be praised and loved by authority figures, so they are loved for their loyalty, so they learn to please authority and gain stability and security.

When attacked, the Loyal type emphasizes that I am loyal and do what I should do according to the rules: avoiding "breaking the rules", often trapped in the mood of "fear of making a mistake", always shrinking from behaving for fear of breaking the rules, unable to meet with his own inner authority, unable to take authority for every behavior, seeking others to give him guidance, telling him what he can and cannot do, giving him norms, in order to protect his own ideals Loyalty, obedience, and the desire to be loyal and obedient. Avoids any "disobedience" (wrongdoing), and is afraid of even the thought of making a mistake himself, or that others' mistakes will affect him.

The psychological self-defense mechanism is projection. When he has thoughts of committing a crime, he projects them onto others; he lacks the ability to make decisions; he worships and fears authority; he has conflicting emotions of good and bad; he oscillates between aggression and dependence on others. The language is characterized by "what can and cannot be done", always paying attention to what the authority wants, very slow in expression, very unsure of oneself, stuttering, and sexual behavioral disorders. Very cautious, too much thinking results in no behavior, spends energy on fear and doubt, a lot of doubt, often timid, introspective, often ask themselves where they are wrong and where they are right, rehearsal before the behavior. He often asks himself where he is wrong and where he is right, and rehearses possible scenarios before he acts.

Admiration of rules and regulations, can sacrifice everything to obey the decree, rules and regulations, when there is self-rebellion in the inner, loyal type still had this repression up clip, continue to follow orders; these repressions will produce complaints, emotional repression for a long time, the temperament has become negative and perverse, and these complaints will be projected on other people. Excessive loyalty to the group, ideally controlled by the authoritative image of the father, with a very serious father. Facing problems in a dogmatic way, such as checking decrees and official documents as the basis for behavior, so as not to make mistakes, without the ability to tolerate contradictions, overly concerned about detecting everything, taking into account all the uncertainties before behaving, compulsively paying attention to the outside dynamics, such efforts are very trustworthy, which is only a short-lived feeling for him. Still believes that not enough is being done for certainty, only feels empty, uncertain, anxious, unclear, with a tendency to delusion that everyone is misbehaving, to attack this misbehavior, and that he himself is the only one who is following the rules. He believes that a good attack is the best defense, presses first, controls others, is himself the accuser, sees the rules he believes in as the right rules, often overkill. Having many concerns, facing these anxieties with the opposite attitude, attacking others out of fear, becoming brave in disguise, attacking others out of fear, being too aggressive towards the things that cause anxiety, is straight up non-compliance. Because of one's own ideals and prejudices, one's demands on oneself are often inhuman.

He has a soft appearance, wears an armored suit, physically shows discomfort in the neck and shoulders, afraid of losing control of himself, afraid of being perceived as out of control, has a kind of neurotic fear, becomes very insecure when there is no way out, has a friendly appearance, often smiles and laughs and says I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid, mentally hopes that other people will stand on his side, has a serious and humorless sense of humor, and worships heroes.

Balanced in his relationships with people, easy to get close to people, able to support and love each other, able to work alone as well as with others as equals, with a full spirit of cooperation, he is able to feel a real sense of security, because they trust themselves and trustworthy people. There are many moving qualities such as beauty, friendliness, cuteness, simplicity, very attractive like a little girl, a little boy. He will protect the people he is close to. He will protect those he is close to, identify with, and feel at home with a healthy loyal type, who can be relied on faithfully, who tries to fulfill the tasks he has entrusted to him, who respects people, especially those in authority, and who may be a challenger to authority, because he demands that those in authority be truly authoritative, and that those who lead be truly capable of leading people.

He is a courteous host, able to provide for others, to entertain them, to care for them, and to be faithful and warm. This type of person is good at parenting, not spoiling and inducing children to grow up.

Loyal --- Tell yourself, steady your heart, success or failure, focus on the process, not on the results, and believe that every action process will bring a good experience.

Anxiety → stopping → discernment → having the courage to take action