- I'm very efficient at what I do because I'm always working every second.
- If I am willing to do something, I will do it well.
- I always show my optimism, positivity and aggressiveness in front of others.
- I am often afraid of people taking advantage of me.
- I don't like to rely on others, even if they are close to me, because I want to rely on them to be easily hurt, but I am very good at using others to present me.
- If there is no goal in life, it will be boring and meaningless.
- I love to hear compliments.
- In public, I like to be the center of attention.
- I don't like to be too close to others for fear of being found out that I have weaknesses.
- I am a person who is very efficient in doing things, so I always fight for time and space to make myself successful.
- There's really no point in living without a purpose in life; find a way to pursue it.
- In order to harmonize relationships, I am very good at agreeing with others, so I am very likeable.
- In order to pursue something new, it would be inefficient to slow myself down. People say I'm overly ambitious, but I think that's exactly what I'm good at.
- I'm very discerning and pick people to help me, but I hate being used by others.
- My exterior shines and I'm positive and optimistic, but when I stop, deep down there are times when I'm pessimistic and hopeless.
- In order to win people over, I often act like I care about and am interested in others.
- If I have nothing to do every day, I will hate myself and feel disgusting.
- Sometimes I'm afraid that others are better than me, so I try my best to get ahead, as if I'm paranoid.
- I'm so concerned about my appearance that I often cover up my true feelings with external adornment.
- I love to be praised by others, especially when I am most satisfied with applause and constant compliments.
I. Motivation, Purpose
I want to be recognized by everyone, so I am an ambitious person, constantly pursuing progress and improving my talent, with the ultimate goal of being admired and envied by everyone. And to become the center of attention for all purposes.
Second, the ability, the source of power
It is often worth boasting, and in every applause, they live the more satisfied; the more satisfied they are, the more they want to continue to be applauded, so they are more self-expectation, self-improvement, and in the success of their career, the whole person is full of vitality and impetus.
III. Ideal Goal
They are most concerned about their honor, status, prestige and wealth, so they are a purpose-oriented person, and feel that career success is the first purpose of life.
Fourth, the emotion of not touching, the complex of avoidance
Career success type of people are focusing on the perfect external image, so in every occasion, can completely agree with others, that is, they will be appropriate to play every occasion, they should play the role, without adding their own personal feelings and opinions, generally speaking, is a dignified and sensible people. However, it is often habitual to play the role, and ultimately forget who they really are. Make themselves become emotionless, emotionless machine, and finally become in the image, they are cold, indifferent, and calculating.
V. Traits that often appear in daily life
A. They always boast about their own goodness, everything they do is great, and their ego is so inflated.
B. Sells himself or herself, advertises himself or herself, and makes himself or herself better known when he or she is with others.
C.Often take the names of some big names and celebrities together with themselves to show that they have a wide range of contacts and have a way.
D. Have a mouth to brag, less ears to listen to, always boast themselves overjoyed, forgetting that other people also have a voice.
E.Love to show off and seduce people; show off their talents, status and figure. They love to show off their talent, status and figure.
F. Do things efficiently, but also find shortcuts, smart, flexible, strong imitation ability, acting like something.
G. Can't see the good in others, and put the credit of others on themselves, without feeling anything wrong.
H.Like to be the main character, want to get everyone's attention, feel that they deserve to be loved, others did not pay, will be very frustrated and angry.
I.They are jealous and like to compare themselves with others.
J.Take good care of their own things, but do not care too much about other people's affairs.
K. Not willing to put too much effort into trivial or family matters.
Emotions and Feelings
A. Daffodil plot - narcissism.
B.Like to inflate themselves.
C.Love of publicity.
D.Being and acting with a mask.
E.Love of comparison and jealousy.
F.Hostility towards people, keeping a distance.
G.Like to be ironic and sarcastic.
H.Make yourself an extraordinary person.
I.Like to stay excited.
J.Do not look at negative emotions.
VII. Often fall into the trap of obsession
In order to succeed, in order to prestige, wealth, sometimes sacrifice emotions, marriage, family or friends they do not mind, sometimes Hou for the efficiency, they will also take others as a stepping stone, will be their own cushion, because their value standard is to be successful in their careers, so only to climb up is their only purpose.
Eight, the defense of their own masks
With false image, with the mask to survive in the interpersonal, is the form of heavy substance of the people, because they role-playing is too good, its realism, commitment, so that no one can not see is a disguise, but although they bluffed over others, to please others like, but also therefore lost their own nature, and even their own can not be found.
Waste of energy
Their energy, completely wasted in cooperation with others, and spend time to do show, self-promotion, so late at night, often have a sense of emptiness.
X. Early Identity - Character Formation
In their early years, they must have been surrounded by elders who loved them very much and often gave them encouragement and praise, so from childhood they believed that they were excellent, and in order to get the satisfaction of being praised, they also worked very hard to fight for it.
Career Successful type pursues success, attaches great importance to self-image, is idealistic and efficient, feels more comfortable when success is emphasized frequently, sees success as the whole of their life, everything they do is the best, most of them are doing well, and they are reinforced to do even better, and the experience is that I am doing better, so they are constrained and fixated on bragging. Constantly and compulsively avoiding failure, identifying with achievement, avoiding failure as a successful career type of self-portrait, (feeling the best self-portrait when successful), if they realize that they will be threatened if they fail, in order to defend themselves, they will identify themselves with their own roles, do not identify themselves with who they are (e.g., I'm a teacher, an engineer, a doctor, I won't say my last name, first name what they are), and they often experience what they chose to do, without experiencing the person, and sacrifice their own individuality, without realizing their own individuality. They do not experience the person they choose to be, sacrificing their individuality, and do not have real feelings. The attitude of focusing only on the success of things (telling others about his work) often boasts of success, constantly exaggerating his own image, and not wanting others to see what he really is, he is rarely himself, and has no self other than his role.
Being loved and being successful are inseparable and only proud of success.
Seeing oneself only from the outside, type over substance, no encounter with the inside, no world inside, can change from one role to another, unable to drop roles to experience one's own basic self, as if wearing a mask, focusing on the mask, many times unaware of one's own feelings, as if there is no life, only roles to live in, afraid of real intimacy.
He won't admit that he doesn't have feelings, that his feelings are only what people should have, that they are false feelings, that they are superficial, that they can't penetrate into his psyche, and that it's hard for him to realize what he's feeling at the moment. It is very difficult for him to feel deeper, he is not alert to the fact that he is playing a role, he often promotes himself to deepen the impression of others, he is constantly aware of the image he gives to others.
Deep down, he is cold, superficial, self-centered, narcissistic, superior and manipulative, and when he is emotionally disturbed, he will treat others with hatred without knowing where it comes from.
This is the type in the Nine Types Chart that is least likely to touch his/her own emotions.
Attractive, sensitive, natural, sincere, energetic, self-assured, confident, doesn't care what others think of him, doesn't have to play a role to appreciate himself.
Shifting his focus to "inner orientation" and "self-growth" to develop his own feelings and identity, he has a great deal of freedom for himself, and is the most certain type in the Nine Types Chart.
People generally like him and appreciate what he does. He has social skills, knows how to get along with people, has high ability, and deserves to be praised; he is a creator of associations, can push things forward, has organizational skills, and is very good at cooperating with people, and is the leader of a group; he has inexhaustible energy to do what needs to be done, and can grasp the actual situation and details of things very quickly, and is a pragmatist. Very good at explaining things, has boundless generosity and is available for service.
Bright-eyed, enthusiastic and energetic, caring, extroverted with natural simplicity and innocence; like an open book very open, without individuality of self, develops into a real character and accepts himself completely, no longer image-oriented with no individuality to himself and others as its strength.
Successful career type --- The external behavior has a lot of energy, and it seems that the inner and outer worlds are united, but in fact, it cannot touch the inner depths, and the inner world is empty and has no sense of solidity. They are always fighting between the inner "emptiness" and the outer "trans". Forgetting the two sides of the same coin.
Expansion <==> Behavioral <==> Expansion of the ego <==>Void <==>Qua <==>Void. Energy is consumed in emptiness and exaggeration.
Tell yourself to be down-to-earth, to do something rather than nothing. Be still and listen to the deep voice of your thoughts